He told me later that he had to ask for a confirmation, as all he got when he popped the question was "tears and gibberish" ! Dinner was a waste as neither of them could eat, and even at lunch today Jess was too excited to be hungry.
What I really loved, though, was how Jess rang me after Jay popped the question. She rang her own family first, of course (her dad's response - "oh that's nice love" - she had just woken him up - he lives in a different time zone *g*)
Anyway, after lunching with me they were off home to ring their insurance company and have the ring added to their policy.